Yep, I agree about the guilt....not sure though, because my H is doing as much 'nice' things as possible as in maintaining me and the kids so that he seems 'guiltfree' to the outside world, it's like scoring points so that he can get a merrit badge ! Who knows really...and frankly, no point in worrying about it. The thing is ...they MAY or MAY NOT see it one day...so we're back to square one, therefore, no use worrying about it ! URGH...wow what a ramble ! hahaha
Maybe that is why he DOESN't feel guilty ..or he actually does and is doing all those nice things.
