Let me just MO2C and my wife should write a book. They should title it "Why I am not the bad guy".
I believe we all must do what we must do, I think it is clear to me that she needs not wants, needs to be on her own. She needs to find her herself, her love, her passion, and her mission.
I pity your wife, it is very unfortunate. I am sorry for you and your children. I think the best thing in the world for all would be if she wanted to come home! In truth the MOM would benefit the most if this were the case, but alas for now it is not to be!
I am not surprised given the nature of the sitch that she deceived you, she has not forgiven herself, does not want you to forgive her. She reinforced this by this false pretense! I don't know what else to say except maybe this is why Michelle said to not share!
I have seen this twice, on the board once last year, can't remember the couples names, but kind of the same thing. We watched the posted debate, between I want to say dancing something she was the WAW. Anyway, logic does not apply here, the WAW only works on feelings, not logic! Funny thing is your feelings come from your thoughts.
If you change your perspective and thoughts (which one can do). You will change your feelings, Hang in there brother! Life has a funny way of balancing out in the end!
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
