Taking the Plunge and Moving to Piecing

[rjd5974]

Looks like you're already taking some good advice here. Your H is telling you in an indirect way part of whats bothering him when he says you're pressuring him. Be thankful that he gives you some clue. Definitely ease up on the ILY's. Think back to what got him to say it before...if I recall it's when you stopped.

Who knows what else it is about his job or whatever else that's getting to him, but if he doesn't want to talk about it he doesn't want to talk. Don't bother trying to get it out of him, that will only make him clam up more.

You're doing good. I know how hard this can be, and I know how it can eat at you inside. Just try and take one day at a time, try to look at your sitch every day with a fresh set of eyes so you avoid falling into bad patterns. Things change so quickly when you're at these stages that you have to be ready to change with them.