I'm usually up late. Yes, Retro is good just for communication. But that doesn't make it any easier to get the WAS there. Certainly it is good to bring up. But until she breaks off with OM, nothing you do is likely to be effective. She is like a drug addict on a high and looking for the next fix of OM, and she doesn't want anything interfering with that.
Still, as in my sitch, just because OM will spend time with her doesn't mean OM will drop his life and marry your wife. She could be riding for a fall. Women get all these stars in their eyes when they are in love, and a lot of men just want to have fun.
