Each individual, even in a marriage, has their boundries. As long as we don't overstep theirs and they don't overstep ours, it's all good, imho.
Just a ps to my last post... not once, when in crisis mode with my H, did I contact any of the psuedo-EA/ex/plan b guys. Not once. And our crisis was know to EVERYONE in our lives. Not to them though. Even though we did the chit-chat how's it going emails (though not often because I didn't connect with anyone on email status much at that time), I never divulged what was wrong or why I "disappeared" a lot during that time to those plan B guys. When it came down to it... somewhere in there I knew what mattered and I knew that it would be dangerous to divulge my problems to someone who would be happy to save me. I'm proud of that. For the first time ever I saved myself. Just sayin'......... I deserved my h's trust. When it came down to it, I didn't go there. I think that there is a certain amount of privacy to be considered in all this transparancy talk. Crossing a loved ones boundries is one thing, crossing our own is another.
