Last one locked up: Maybe Last Thread in Separting, Found DB 2 Late

Sara, I totally get what you're saying and it sunk in a different way than anything yet.

It wasn't the breakup song. H and I met at our S5's tball game tonight. He was disappointed to hear that the song was actually about a trip Roger Water's took to the doctor. He thought it was about a man who had lost his way.

Then after we parted and I was putting the kids to bed, H calls. He starts the conversation with, "I know I'm not supposed to do this, but I'm reaching out to you as a friend" and asks where he should take the seven work associates who are visiting from all over out to dinner. I asked him why he shouldn't be doing this and he responded that he knows he's supposed to do this himself.

Lastly, D's bday is Saturday. H was talking about making a big, fun breakfast for her the morning of her bday. I jokingly said, "Have it at 6am and I'll stop by on my way to work for a bite." Then H said that he wanted to do it at the house because he doesn't have all the kitchen stuff needed. I'm not that comfortable with this. I go to work at 8am and really don't want him hanging out at the house. At the same time, it would be nice for my D to have us all together the morning of her bday. We sill be spending the day together. Do I draw my boundary line or let my 7-year old start her bday together?

I'm fading into the woodwork...


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.