Yeah, Jackie, use the Act As If! I tried to think of it as trurning around an oil tanker. H would come home in a foul mood, but I would have prepared myself with my Tom Petty CD and a glass of wine, have a good dinner cooking, looking and smelling great, validating where necessary - and it was amazing how he'd come around by the end of the evening. It works!
How's BFL coming? I am in week five, finally really starting to see some results - this is so cool! So get back into that, girl.