Sorry I don't have time to post more but I'm certainly thinking of you and your family every day. I would just say to give him more space when he is in a foul mood and just keep giving him time and your unending patience. Do look after your responsibilities but don't try to "make him happy" only he can do that so you will always fail and make you sad. Concentrate on the kids and yourself, they'll know the truth and the truth never changes.
