That's the way I see it Lizzy. I have nothing left to lose. I know I'm going to be ok either way. To be honest....the less complicated answer to all this right now would be to sell the house and move on. If H starts showing signs of second guessing himself...that's when things will get complicated! J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out