That's the way I see it Lizzy. I have nothing left to lose. I know I'm going to be ok either way.
To be honest....the less complicated answer to all this right now would be to sell the house and move on. If H starts showing signs of second guessing himself...that's when things will get complicated!
J~


M 35
H 29
M 4 yrs T 9 yrs
D 3
S born 10/19/07
Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day
OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08
Status - still figuring this out