Jenny,
You have done a terrific job of detaching. I understand you not wanting the D and wanting to tell H. I still love my H more than I thought I did a year ago. I want to work on our M, but I can't make him. I don't want to live in limbo forever though and I'm getting ready to move on. I think it is important for you to tell your H how you feel. At this point do you have anything to loose?


R 23 years
M 20 years
Bomb June 2007
S Oct 2007
Ds 11 & 16
Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008