(((lwb))). I know so many of us have been thinking of you. My H didn't bother to think about money when he filed, he just thought it would end the fighting.(His words). I still contend that if you don't bother to work on a situation the problem doesn't go away just because you file for divorce. Don't get me wrong I think you have been working, I was implying that my H hasn't. Puppy says that will continue to haunt him for a long time.
The worse time to do anything is when you are low. If you feel the same way when you are in a better place, fine. You need to feel content with your decision and then you will know that it is the right one. I am sort of the same place right now...do I help H divorce me or allow the judge to tell me what I have to do. Either way I am divorced and that is the last thing I want. I will keep praying for the best outcome for you. kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory