The "ouch!" was a joke \:\) . If you're somewhat familiar with my sitch, and I believe you are, then you ought to know that it takes a lot more than that to really hurt me. My H seems to be a pro at it.

We can agree to disagree. If there really is no need for your H to know about certain things, I understand that is your choice, and I respect that.

\:\)

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell