Whatever, GF. As I keep saying, it's my life. I'll make my own decisions.
LOL! Ouch!
I understand totally that it is your life, Sara, and you are free to do as you please. I was not at all trying to make your decisions for you. Just trying to understand how you can advocate complete transparency, like you did with Didi and others I'm sure, yet you feel it's perfectly fine to keep the occasional contact you have with your OM from your H.
But, to each his/her own.
I will leave you alone.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell