So any ideas how to stop being one of the guys.I hear this enough from my female friends to know there has to be a grain of truth to it.
I have no idea!
I just got back from a 4 day conference with roughly 4000-5000 people - 99% of them men. Most of them successful and many of them attractive - I think... Alcohol was flowing freely - men everywhere. I am sure some of them were single.
I have no idea how to flirt. I talked and talked to people. I didn't dress as a man at the conference. Men seem to be a little afraid of me as well...
And when I returned - I realized that I viewed all these men as asexual people. I am wondering what it will take for me to be interested in someone as a a member of the opposite sex.
Yet - I too am feeling a little lonely these days... What a quandry. Let me know if you figure this one out!