Sleeper,
I think you are doing OK. You sound more relaxed. I hope you are taking care of yourself.

I wish I could say the same for my situation. You are making progress. My guess is that many of us in similar timeframes are having our spouses feel the reality hititng.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D