OW is getting way too demanding of him in that she "told" him he needs to file divorce papers and start taking his money and dealing with the financial aspects of this, H didn't care for that at all, she went through his cell phone while he was asleep H is not one that you "tell" what to do but H is starting to see some of what I've been telling him about her and told me last nite that he is going to tell her today that he has no intention of divorcing me so we'll see.
mzul, There are quite a few crazy OW/OM on this board. I was lucky enough to have one of those in my sitch. I say lucky because when this woman started being demanding/conniving/threatening/nasty, I stood back and let her show her true colors.
I just didn't stand back and do nothing though, I DBed, acted as if, etc. It took extreme patience as at times I just wanted to run like h3ll in the other direction. But in the end, it was the right strategy for me.
OW in your sitch sounds really insecure if she's doing the snooping on your H! He needs to tread carefully here if she's really as emotionally unstable as she sounds.
