My son's IEP is very similar to fig's son's. My son has Aspberger's and ADHD. Unfortunately, it took several years of pushing and pushing to get them to test him for everything that was necessary. I was very persistent and it has paid off in a big way. S13 still has to be responsible for turning in his work (which is a huge struggle now, more than every before) but he gets a lot of services especially since he was finally labeled as autistic.
Dar, you are your child's only advocate. No one else will fight for her. Stand up and make a stand for her no matter what. If they give you attitude at the school about it, go to the board of education. If they won't help, go to the county administrators. If they won't help, go to the state school commissioner. Take it as high as it has to be. No matter what, never give up.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!