Sara, I've been around here for months and I don't think I ever read about your sitch. Thanks for sharing.
I know you and your H sing accolades about Retrouvaille. You still embrace what you learned and shared there. If you and your H trust each other to not mind the occasional email from OW/OM, and know that it doesn't mean anything, then that tells me that you've both moved beyond any EA/PA. I think it's fantastic that you have that level of comfort in your relationship now.
