You conversations with H about your relationship are a lot like mine with my son about college. I do all the talking. I say where to you want to go to school, let's look up the school on the internet. He follows me to the computer. Then I say, lets see what programs they offer, and I start reading off all the majors. Then I look around and realize he's left the room. And then I find him in his room watching tv again. And I say, don't you want to look at colleges? And he says, not now.
