Hey, smart cookie, glad I can help someone, LOL. For some reason I'm finding it "freeing" to just let a bunch of internet strangers in on my recent relevations about the *state of me*.
I know, isn't it so awesome to just spill your guts, & it goes out into the universe. I love it. I'll have to think of a really mean thing I've thought or said. All my friends know it though, they say "girl, you have a wicked mean streak".
Originally Posted By: Deauxlie
I don't think I've incorporated that particular step in my program. I don't want to reform tooo much. There are natural consequences he's gotta face so he doesn't go thinking he can try that *erasing me thang* again, donchaknow.
I hear ya. I want to go read your whole story, you sound super fun. take care.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
I don't think I've incorporated that particular step in my program. I don't want to reform tooo much. There are natural consequences he's gotta face so he doesn't go thinking he can try that *erasing me thang* again, donchaknow. 
