Hi Jackie..I am not too good at stopping by..you have been over to see me and I really appreciate it.
I agree with the others..don't include h in family things..if he seems to be buggy around you, then give him the space. My h attitude when he was home was so cold and distant..answered things as brief as possible..it was not until he was feeling better about himself that he started to project that to me..and I too am feeling better..if you have read any of mine you will see that I decided I had to keep going or I was scared to death I would sink and never come back up. I have seen a sister go through depression and sometimes I realize it is not in anyones control, but I do think alot of your attitude has to affect your mind and body. Start to foccus on you..because your son needs you the reast of his life even if your m does not survive..I know I sound all strong and mighty..I am not..I just beleive we have the choices and resources out there to help us go on.
