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[MichelleLT]

Something I have thought about. Every time she sends me some bit of conversation.

I could get defensive and say that I'm not snooping, that I don't ask her to do this, that he chooses to talk to her, that she's his friend. But *shrugs* he'd probably still be annoyed, at least for a while.

Mostly, he is past the point of lashing out at me, trying to blame me for things. This is a definite improvement over 8 months and a year ago.

Regardless, the only way to stop it is to tell her please don't send me anything because I don't ask, she just drops stuff on me periodically when something "important" comes up. I am not quite sure how to handle it, especially as confirming my gut feelings makes me feel like I'm not going crazy.