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[AliSuddenly]

I'm quite shocked at that and your muted reaction to it. I'd be way more upset, so well done for not reacting! You are right, she is hanging herself with her actions (shes being a hassly pain in the *rse even from overseas!!! Imagine what she will be like back near him, a nightmare. She sounds insecure). So its great news to have it confirmed that hes not that into her. Its probably just a distraction, an ego boost, like you say. Shes on borrowed time already !

I'm sorry though that he continues to vacilate. I guess you should lay low for a while and not contact him/IM him at all. Dont persue him, make him miss you? (as you would say to me !)

Ali xxx