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Ugh! No Tahoe this weekend after all. I will be going up there next weekend instead.

Now I have to figure out what to do this long holiday weekend by myself... I think I might Priceline a hotel in San Francisco and hit all the museums I can!


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
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D Final 3.19.09
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That sounds fun!

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There you go - I am with you. I am not sure what to do. My D21 is going to San Luis Obispo to visit a girl friend, so just me and S19 who really could care less if I am home! go for it, that sounds like a blast! One of my favorite hotels is the Hotel Monico - but so many to choose from!

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Bummer about Tahoe. Hope the party goes well.

I liked the e-mail. I think it was clear, concise, and low pressure.

(((CW))) It's good to be prepared for anything. If you are prepared for the worst, it can't really knock you out. Keeps the expectations low.


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Ugh! No Tahoe this weekend after all. I will be going up there next weekend instead.

Now I have to figure out what to do this long holiday weekend by myself... I think I might Priceline a hotel in San Francisco and hit all the museums I can!


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

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H just emailed me "The Departed" (movie) version of Pink Floyd's "Comfortably Numb." Interesting. He's much more of a hip-hop/R&B kind of guy.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
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Just listened to the song and it really freaked me out. There are two verses in there that spoke to me.

The first is me saying:
"Come on, now.
I hear you’re feeling down.
Well I can ease your pain,
Get you on your feet again.
Relax.
I need some information first.
Just the basic facts:
Can you show me where it hurts?"

The last is him saying:
"There is no pain, you are receding.
A distant ships smoke on the horizon.
You are only coming through in waves.
Your lips move but I cant hear what you’re sayin.
When I was a child I caught a fleeting glimpse,
Out of the corner of my eye.
I turned to look but it was gone.
I cannot put my finger on it now.
The child is grown, the dream is gone.
I have become comfortably numb."


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

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Hmmm interesting choice of music and that he sent it to you now...can't help but think there's some subconscious meaning there.

I don't know that it is anything to freak about, but definitely an insight into his feelings right now.


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The thought has crossed my mind that I got a "breakup song."


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CW,

You conversations with H about your relationship are a lot like mine with my son about college. I do all the talking. I say where to you want to go to school, let's look up the school on the internet. He follows me to the computer. Then I say, lets see what programs they offer, and I start reading off all the majors. Then I look around and realize he's left the room. And then I find him in his room watching tv again. And I say, don't you want to look at colleges? And he says, not now.

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