If he doesnt care what you do, then go and do stuff with out him. I heard the same thing from my W at the beginning. So I started going places with our D I also went out by myself and let her tend Our D. I think you need to start doing this. He wants to be away then show him how much fun it really will be. You don't have to be mean about it but just say hey Im going out on saturday you need to watch the childern. It seemed to work for me, within a month she started wondering what I was out doing and what adventures me an our D were having with out her.
