I would like to say this... What is helping me a lot with my hubby is he has really left the ball in my court... at first I will admit it terrified me.
ME~? Initiate all the time ~yeah right. I will run out of ideas, I will look like an idiot, he will say no.
All of my worries have slowly dwindled.
He amazingly enough is letting me drive , he is being the Man that turns me on, and he is allowing me to go at my pace. My drive is not back full force but it is much stronger than ever... it is blossoming as I like to put it..... He lets me initiate he lets me touch him here and touch him there and he doesnt have out the script and is not saying a little to the left over there in a tone that dries you up like the Sahara.. he is allowing me to seduce him like I want to.
I dunno~ hope that helps someone... Take care and God bless. ~Ali