Through all of this, RTL's W and my STBX are very similar. At the first sign of softening, they have had the tendancy to strike.
In all of this, think about yourself and your D. The go from there. It seems that at the time you saw red flags and did not respond. You did the best you could with what you had...
Me=29 WAW=25 S=2 "I need a break" = 6/07 Filed = 12/07