My husband doesn't know that I get an occasional email and I don't know if he and OW have the occasional email. I know that I have seen the light on OM and cannot imagine wanting him again. I don't know if my husband is that over OW. She broke up with him when it became apparent that he was not almost divorced, as he had told her, and that his family cared. I know that he still has her phone number in his cell phone memory, and I doubt he forgot her email address. We did not make a ban on them. We just fixed us and promised to keep our focus within the marriage. I guess I do trust him again. And he trusts me again. You know, there are a million OM and OW out there. If we wanted to stray, we wouldn't have to go back to the same ones.
