SPM, I agree that they are baby steps and I also agree that it is very, very odd. In fact, she's been texting and e-mailing me all day about the situation w/ D's lice. She's still running to me for support, so there is still something there. There is a connection she can't (or won't) bring herself to completely break.
Yes, she's very, very piss@d off right now. She's angry and frustrated w/ her life and I'm the target. I know that and I'm doing my best to not let it soak in and take it personally. Her actions are very odd. I do wonder if she is more interested in punishing me than divorcing me.
If this is the case, the question comes -- what is the next step once she thinks I've suffered enough? Or will she ever think I've suffered enough?