I'm with Bizarre. "Why was it so hard for you to be nice to me?" feels like an opportunity for an apology. "I'm so sorry it felt like that to you. I want to be nice, and I'm doing the best I can now."

??

What's trust got to do with it?

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Divorce final: Jan 2009
Making it up as I go....