ya, it is as difficult to piece as it is to DB. possibly even harder because during DBing, your so focused and in crisis mode, and piecing, there are more variables and you are in a more vulnerable state, giving yourself out there again.

Just remember not to take things personally, because most likely we are not seeing the whole picture and therefore thinking it is more about us when it really isn't. It's usually about them and something only they can fix.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."