He has actually never left me to answer the phone, even through the worst of it all.
Wow. That's pretty incredible. Very considerate of him.
Well, I think that had more to do with the fact that he wouldn't admit that ANYTHING was going on with her. Plus she never called when she knew he was home...only during working hours . Plus he wouldn't want to hear anything from me.
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Those are some pretty powerful insights!
Yeah, I feel like I have had a light bulb moment. I have just been so confused because it really did seem like we had a good marriage. We hadn't drifted apart, and it seemed like we really enjoyed spending time together. Then, all of the sudden it was turned upside down. Also, I was really confused about OW. Now I feel like I just reminded him of responsibility and she made him forget. Doesn't make it right or ok, but I can understand how it happened.
. Plus he wouldn't want to hear anything from me. 