Ok, I understand and believe if you say that you're over it. I just find it interesting that you would say if there's an e-mail a year or whatever from now that it doesn't matter.
Again, is your H aware of the occasional continued contact that has taken place? How do you think he feels about that? Is there still contact between your H and the OW, and if so, how do you feel about that?
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
