Thanks SC - you know me - I take it all in and then make it up as I go - ask all the posters
I didn't mean to sound harsh, I reread the log and I can see how it may have come off. I want as much info as possible, it does help my thinking.
Thanks again,
CBK
Yes I do know you, I mean geez, we're practically married to each other right. LOL I thought that was the purpose, take it all in, weigh it out, then decide for ourselves what to do.....have I got it wrong ?
No worries about sounding harsh, this is the place to dump it all, so you can go to MC in the right frame of mind. Besides, in some of my posts I probably sound like a cold blooded selfish cheating b*tch, but guess what, I'm not.
Anything I can do to help, let me know.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.