Jackie..sounds like things are good....keep expectations small on losing weight..a pound at a time. I have been doing alot of "need or want"...works shopping too!!.Do I really need the ice cream..some days I do and I have a smaller portion..to deny completly will only make you want it more.

Your h sounds like he wants to work on your m..that is great..but don't forget to keep all the changes you have made going...I think m and especially piecing a m back, is like maintaining your weight..you have to keep the healthy eating up or you will slip back to the bad food..keep up all the positive things you've learned, so as not to slip back to the bad habits..

Take care
Sue