IOW, I think it works best when the firm boundary-setting/enforcing, the confrontation, and the exposure, all represent a "180" from the normally-meeker betrayed spouse.
Puppy
Yes, I also agree completely.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
