Gerlz, it is clearly something in the water where you live. No wait a minute, that is too widespread.
My dear h is behaving like such an a**hole to my middle son right now that I feel quite ill, truly. If he is so happy couldn't he be nice? If he is so sure he is doing the right thing why does he have to prove it all the time.
My middle son offered him an olive branch, and within an hour my h had sabotaged the whole thing so effectively that you would think he had been taking lessons in it. It takes a special kind of person to be so nasty. And he has been like this for over two and a half years. Just nasty, selfish, horrible and immature. I would be dead from the effort. What does it achieve?? Will it ever end??
