Have been trying the 180 technique. Haven't been seeing any positive results. She is still seeing the other guy. A few wdays ago I was really feeling lonely and depressed and called her. I knew that this was probably not the best thing, but I couldn't help it. I tried to sound upbeat talk to her. I told her that I haven't given up and that I still wanted to get back together. Needless to say that it didn't go very well. She said that she gets mad when I try to talk to her about getting back together. I asked if she would be willing to try a date if I didn't talk about us. She said that she would think about it,but I haven't heard anything from her. I am going to see the kids again and she wants me to stay in a hotel again.
I wish I could say something to make you feel better, just that I can completely relate. {{{Chap}}} it will be okay. Lola
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Sounds like you had a similar situation. What happened? What did you do to feel better? Tonight I just felt so overwelmed. I just wanted to call her and tell her that this is just crazy and what are we doing. Im not going call because that would make it worse. I hope it gets better with time. I hope things are going well with your situation.
Made the mistake of calling wife to talk about us. Told her I loved her and wanted us to work it out. Asked her to stop seeing OM. She said she gets mad when I call and talk about us and she said she is not going to stop seeing OM. She said he is very nice,treats her well, and deserves a chance. Asked her to go on date with no talk of the marriage. She said she would think about it, but didn't seem very interested. Saw her while visiting the kids. We were at our sons baseball. Tried to be upbeat. Didn't say anything about the marriage. She didn't seem to want to talk much. We just said a few words about the kids,then I had to leave to go to work. Wish it had gone better. Haven't seen any signs of improvement. Now that she is dating someone else im afraid that she will have no interest in getting back together. Ill keep on trying the DBing. Hopefully Im wrong and things will improve.
