Originally Posted By: BigHands
Well, thank God we don't all have that dark, or self-centered an outlook.

Or

Let me guess. God doesn't enter into any of it either, because you can only control you.


Or you could simply say that you respect that braveheart has his own views and leave it at that. Many varying outlooks are out there as you and I both know BH, none are wrong, just different.


Shoe, my opinion, I understand the hurt and betrayal that you feel about what has transipred with your Ex. It is raw and painful and you simply figure out what you need to get past the pain. Forget about him, her, all the outside the span of control bullshitt and simply get through the emotional low point that you hit because of it. What he does has no bearing on you at aall or what so ever and it can only make you a stronger person to push through it all.


Sorry for the interruption.


Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09