I will go check your thread, but you are right, we are very close in sitch's. You in Nor Cal or So Cal?
Honestly, it will take you almost a day to read the threads, but I have to say, when I re-read them, it was very helpful. You will see how quickly my emotions changed, how I was not able to hear what posters were saying. I have only been on this board for a month and have learned a lot. In some ways, I am glad I found it so quickly, in other ways, wish I could have had more of my emotions in check before I got here.
Bottom line is I am finally working on me and my family - if WAW wants to join us anytime soon, the door is always open, and after our MC this Thursday, she will know the only 2 boundaries.
Have fun reading -
CBK
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09