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Keeping the mouth shut seems to be one of the hardest parts.



it certainly can be...heck I even titled my first piecing thread "trying to come home...help me keep my mouth shut"

it is difficult to stop the whys and whats but it is a must...things have a way of comming about if you just sit back a while and give them time to come on their own..

re h's in love statements...it's great that he's using love statements...appreciate them for what they are..sometimes it's hard to out right say I Love You..even when you want to say it...occasionally I get an outright ily from h and when I do...it's hard for me to say it back..does take a few..doesn't mean I don't want to say it..so try not to analyze h's lack of using the words in response to yours.

re the dieting...perhaps the goal is to big...and therefore is keeping you unmotivated...why not set up a plan that includes some baby steps?

LL