CBK you love who your wife was, not who she is, are in love with the woman you married, not the person that walked away. It is okay to love your wife, but you don't love the person she is right now. If the wife you loved comes home great! You don't want the person that is involved with the OM!
I believe you want your wife home, but I don't believe you want the person that has contributed to your pain and suffering home. Take care of yourself! You don't need a person that would hurt you and walk out! You want your wife, she is lost right now!
BUILD ON THE PROGRESS YOU HAVE MADE FOR YOURSELF! IF YOU THINK YOU ARE BACKSLIDING THEN YOU PROBABLY ARE!
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!