Have been trying the 180 technique. Haven't been seeing any positive results. She is still seeing the other guy. A few wdays ago I was really feeling lonely and depressed and called her. I knew that this was probably not the best thing, but I couldn't help it. I tried to sound upbeat talk to her. I told her that I haven't given up and that I still wanted to get back together. Needless to say that it didn't go very well. She said that she gets mad when I try to talk to her about getting back together. I asked if she would be willing to try a date if I didn't talk about us. She said that she would think about it,but I haven't heard anything from her. I am going to see the kids again and she wants me to stay in a hotel again.


Me:37 Her:34
Married: 10/16/1999
Seperated: 08/10/2007