You are right GF - she has her priorities as her first - she said her IC said it was okay for her to be selfish. Early on in our convo's, I would tell her that she is acting very selfish and there are lots of people involved - well, heck, that seemed to backfire.
CBK,
Define "backfire" for us. What was the response when you did this, and why did you interpret it as a failing response?
