Think of a way he can experiment with something new, so that he can't fail. Be his mind and voice to start with, and articulate what you think his fears and avoidance might be. Identify small steps for him to take, and please be patient with him. If he senses any impatience or pressure than he will retreat.[quote]
CL,
I guess this was what I was trying to acomplish by telling him that I felt he was waiting for those in love feelings to come back and that I chose to love him but, I do see where it might sound like i am telling him I want more effort from him when I talked about what I needed. I also mentioned what I thought he needed for me to meet his needs.
Could you please help me here with specific steps. Im'e so jumbled with so much feeling that I could use the help i feel to make sure i give him the guidance he needs right now.
I guess that maybe I don't even know where to start anymore.
JAK
Last edited by jak58; 05/20/0805:03 PM.
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