Just do the best you can, I know it is terrible to not "be yourself". It is frustrating that being loving open and pouring your heart out is the last thing they want to hear! But because of the selfishness on the WAS's part we can't. MC is about open and honest communication, if you can't do that, I don't see the point! Again if it makes you feel better keep on a keeping on!
I am the one that "pushed for MC" after 6 weeks I am the one that said this is a waste of money. My W. did not want to go because she believed she told me everything and we were just paying someone to hear the same old story. Well that was her attitude about it and sure enough, that is all it was. Needless to say I picked up on it and said enough.
Don't let them see they still hurt you, power like an affair is addictive and corrupting in nature. Give them nothing, some people need to be shown you get what you give! YOU GIVE NOTHING to those that aren't worthy off receiving it! Do that for you! Focus on the "happy" without her and all will be fine!
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
