Perhaps you should just get your L to send out a little tidbit
She already did that. When I rang this morning she was with a client so I left a message with her receptionist. I then rang back after the funeral and she was on another call. Fortuanately the lady I spoke to was the same one I had spoken to this morning. She told me she had passed on the message and that my L had dictated a letter to her which she had been instructed to fax to Hs L. It stated that 'we' will be in a position to exchange information week beg 2nd June. It also pointed out that the time delay is not my fault it is due to problems they have been having with staff illness/holidays.
The same lady did assure me that H couldn't just 'take me to court' so looks like I can sit back down on the kerb and wait.
On another note I found out this morning that my niece got attacked by two dogs last night when she was walking her dog. She has a nasty bite on her hand and her dog is very lucky to be alive (it's only down to a passer by that things aren't more serious).
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15