In a way, you have been like me lately, I think. I think I need to follow your example!
Jeff, you wrote that on Amy's thread. There are big differences in the situations.
She and her husband can actually joke and are pleasant with each other.
The place you find yourself in took a long time to build, both you and your wife, there aren't going to be any drastic or sudden positives in your realtionship with your wife, it is going to take time for both of you to learn how to be nice and friendly again with each other.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK