A warm welcome to you Jackie, even if it is a little belated. I have become a little familar with your sitch by dropping by darkblue's thread from time to time. Glad to see you are comfortable enough to make the jump over to here. In some aspects, its really not much different in your approach than before. Patience is still a large key allowing each other to draw closer together. However, some more techniques of the DB do tend to present themselves at this stage and it is always a good idea to reread DR for a refresher on other techniques you can use to work those issues when your not doing the one person tango.
