You are right GF - she has her priorities as her first - she said her IC said it was okay for her to be selfish. Early on in our convo's, I would tell her that she is acting very selfish and there are lots of people involved - well, heck, that seemed to backfire.

I will see how MC goes, like I said, I was walking into those sessions with the victim attitude. That is what I need to change when I get there. I would always try to talk about poor me and WAW would just validate her reasons for wanting to leave me. I hope by Thursday, I will have grown even stronger. I actually scheduled my DB coach that day as well for some added confidence.

We will see what happens - just trying to figure things out.

CBK


M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19
Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16
Divorce final 10/09